Adoption, Dinner

A Seafood Restaurant (Ansan, South Korea)

Everyone is asleep now, so I’ll try to use this quiet time to write a little better post than last time.

As I mentioned earlier, I made this trip so that I could meet my birth father for the first time.  I kinda made the decision to go as early as possible based upon the fact that I’d regret it if something happened and I missed my chance.  Anyway, my sister wrote me an e-mail before my plane left JFK to tell me that she gathered the children at our parent’s house and told our father that I exist.  That sure didn’t make me feel anxious or anything…

The meeting itself went as well as I think it could have.  Luckily my friend Daniel was able to come last night and help translate.  I think everything would have been 9 gazillion times more awkward if we didn’t have him there.  Kinda like tonight when I was introduced to my grandmother, and we didn’t have someone to translate.  What’s that you say… You want me to do a traditional Korean bow to her? What?!? I knew I should have paid more attention to those Korean dramas!!  She was a cool and happy woman though.  She just kept smiling and giggling at me during dinner, so that worked itself out.

I think I could write a lot more, but I’m starting to think that this blog really isn’t the place to do it. Right?  It’s a food blog after all.  You guys care more about the food, not the eater.  :)

I’ll just sum it all up now by saying… I’m not sure how all of these relationships will turn out in the end, especially with my birth parents.  Am I glad that I came though?  To quote Sarah Palin, “You betcha.”

Now get ready to watch the cutest video ever and look at some delicious food.

grilling some fresh seafood

grilling some fresh seafood

that thing is ridiculous huge... and delicious

that thing is ridiculous huge... and delicious

bibimbap

bibimbap up close in yo face

mmm i likey

mmm i likey

this tastes a lot better than it looks like it will

this tastes a lot better than it looks like it will

zomg so cute

zomg so cute

my sister, nephew, and big bowl of noodle soup

my sister, nephew, and big bowl of noodle soup

my oldest sister, subin, and me

my oldest sister, subin, and me

oh hello grandmother i'm meeting for the first time

oh hello grandmother i'm meeting for the first time

family photo by the sea

family photo by the sea

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